So what is the difference between falling in love and falling into love? You want to know the answers? Below these opinions and thoughts are from our Facebook Community Discussion Society. I have put them together here to share with you. If you find it helpful or interesting, please do share with your Facebook friends and re-tweet this post with others.
Sometimes it can be difficult to tell the difference between falling in love and falling into love. This is especially true at the beginning of a relationship. It is easy to think that you have found true love as the intensity of infatuation takes over your life. Love, however, rarely comes on suddenly. It is a slow, gradual process that can only happen after the rush of infatuation starts to ebb.
As you know, being in love, there are three main qualities go with: attraction, closeness, and commitment. Relationships can be about any or all of these.
Attraction is the “chemistry” part of love. It’s all about the physical – even sexual – interest that two people have in each other. Closeness is the bond that a couple develops when they feel comfortable enough to share thoughts and feelings that they don’t share with anyone else. The connection between them deepens to include qualities like trust, respect, and honesty. Commitment is loyalty, together you’ve made a decision to stick with each other through the ups and downs that are part of any relationship.
Relationships that are based on attraction alone are usually more about fun and infatuation than real love.
See what our community members say about it.
Wayne Williams: Falling in love is with another Person! Falling into love is with a Phone, car, Facebook, computer? LOL
Shafiq Khan: Falling in the love is state of being in the love, falling into love is state of entring to the love romantic words .
AbFatah Abdullah: Just fall in love with Allah and Rasulullah, you’ll be safe from falling in the ‘darkness’ by the guided light of truth.
Untung Wahyudi: Fall in love: naturally fall. Fall into love: forceful fall…
Darshana Welivitiya: Love is the greatest thing of the world. So i believe first feeling about Falling in love in second time we Falling into love. The first feeling is falling love with someone second we falling into love to him or her.
Zubair Khan: One thing is common in both and that is “falling”. Second common thing is, it hurts when we fall, the difference is falling in love is something when we unintentionally involved in somebody and falling into love is like when we realized it and we go deeeeeeeply into it intentionally 🙂
Frank Picini: Nothing is more practical than finding God, that is, than falling in a love in a quite absolute, final way. What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination will affect everything. It will decide what will get you out of bed in the mornings, what you will do with your evenings, how you spend your weekends, what you read, who you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude. Fall in love, stay in love, and it will decide everything. To fall into love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.
Syed Zahir Ali Shah: ‘Fall’ in itself has a negative connotation regardless of being ‘in’ or ‘into’! I think i would like to be ‘in love’ rather than ‘falling in’ or ‘falling into’ love! to me ‘love’ as verb not as emotion which tends to evaporate.
Yasir Rehman: Actual term is only falling in love and after success of love a new term produce which named falling into love in shape of children u can say…
Shahyan Arish: Just in few words I would like to say that we have only two ways and remember that lover have just heart not mind if he/she will take a step with the help of heart then i will fall in LOVE and if he/she will use heart as well as mind then it is real love and nobody can stop to win the love
Rana Anwar: 1 Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle… 2 Love is like a mustard seed; planted by God and watered by men… 3 There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved
Dannyooi Ek: Fall in love comes first…with fall into love….the aftermath !!
Basit Syed: Fall in Love: when u Suddenly fall n love with someone for the first time its good and pure. Fall into Love: Its addiction when u r falling into love continually one after other, its Really a bad habit.
Zille Syed: In first case one is falling from the top of the building and in second from the second floor – with chances of survival.
Shaikh Mohammed Abid: Falling in love means friendship dating dancing and while falling into love means MARRIAGE, and it means YOUR SUDDEN END.
John Mohd: Fall means broke the heart; fall in love means get true love.